How a Depression Therapist in San Diego Can Help You Feel Like Yourself Again
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Navigating depression can feel very heavy, disorienting, and isolating. It is normal for depressive thoughts to tell you to do the exact opposite of what you need to do to feel better: Don’t go out. Don’t talk about this with anyone or you’ll embarrass yourself. Ignore this; it'll go away soon. It is just (blank) causing this feeling. I should be able to figure this out once (blank) changes. It can create a pattern of pursuing environmental changes in hopes of feeling better. This can look like moving to a different home, city, relationship, job, etc. However, once the novelty of the initial change wears off, you start to notice the familiar sadness and unhappiness creeping back in. This can be especially challenging in a fun, active, perfect weather city like San Diego. Living in a highly desired, sunny, beautiful beach city is a dream come true for many. This, unfortunately, does not make San Diego locals immune to depression. Mental health can impact anyone and this is why it is so important to learn the signs and identify ways to help. Not sure where to start? Looks like you already have if you are reading this blog for a depression therapist San Diego.
What Depression Can Really Feel Like (It’s Not Always Obvious)
Symptoms of depression can be deceiving and stay hidden for months or even years. I often describe it as a dark heaviness that slowly creeps into one's life quietly and undetected at first only to become overwhelming and unmanageable all at once. This is because common symptoms may not look so common after all. Depression doesn’t have to be constant crying, difficulty getting out of bed, or even feeling sad at all. It can also be low mood or motivation, fatigue, emotionless, irritability, difficulty concentrating or making decisions. Our clients often describe not feeling like themselves, disconnected, or “Blah.” Things they used to enjoy aren’t as enjoyable anymore and getting through a normal day seems to take more out of them than they’d ever like to admit. They are successful in life and, all things considered, have a lot to be grateful and proud of, yet something isn’t right. As therapists for depression in San Diego, we support our clients in being real and honest with how they are doing/feeling even though they are enjoying all the perks San Diego has to offer. It is okay and perfectly normal to feel sad or incomplete in an environment that is so fun and upbeat. We can almost guarantee you are not alone in that experience.
When to Consider Seeing a Depression Therapist in San Diego
It can be difficult to know when to take the next step or even commit to asking for a depression therapist San Diego. Depressive symptoms can come and go without any real triggers. The cycling nature of mood disorders can confuse things even further. For example, when in an upward swing it might feel less important to seek help. Yet, when in a downward spiral the very last thing we want to do is challenge our comfort zone or ask for help. Rather than waiting for the next crisis or crashout to hit, it is important to reach out during any phase of the cycle. Another challenge in knowing if a San Diego depression therapist would be helpful is that symptoms can slowly sneak in and, over time, settle into a “new norm.“ They can become something that is overlooked, ignored for so long that you can forget how different and even better you once felt. Some things to look out for are other parts of your life starting to be negatively impacted, such as relational conflict or even loss, feeling zoned out, numb or disconnected from yourself, poor patience and heightened irritability, low motivation for daily routine tasks such as work, hygiene, or cleaning around the house. Depressive symptoms can make taking action and seeking help that much more challenging. However, it is a major sign of self-awareness and act of self-care to push through and make a call or send an email. We are here to help.
How a Depression Therapist San Diego Can Help
Understanding the Root of What You’re Feeling
Explore your personal history and some of the negative core beliefs that were created during developmental years and the negative impact these are having on you in present day
Uncover emotional patterns that have been present and undetected throughout your life and create opportunities to begin to disrupt and change these unhealthy patterns
Identify personal trigger points or factors that contribute to emotional upset and/or disconnection
Changing Thought Patterns (CBT + Awareness)
Identify the thoughts that are associated with the unwanted and difficult feelings
Introduction to a tool that can be utilized in real time to assist in challenging and confronting the validity of these automatic thoughts
Change the negative thoughts to thoughts that are less emotionally charged and more rooted in the reality of the here and now
Dive deeper to understand your unique past and its role in your brain’s pattern of jumping to these automatic thoughts
Learn about how our thoughts affect our feelings, which then affect our behaviors and how to intervene at any point in this cycle
Processing Emotions Safely
The ability to create an hour a week that is dedicated to providing a supportive space for emotional processing
Identify and implement skills that can be applied to your schedule/needs aimed at decreasing the frequency and intensity of emotions
Allow your emotions to experience some relief and move away from numb or disconnect to a deeper awareness with yourself
Usage of specialized training techniques that facilitate a deeper and more comprehensive look into where symptoms originate from. The hope is that this will provide a more thorough approach to offer long-term relief and prevent future relapse in symptoms.
Reconnecting with Your Body (Somatic + Mindfulness)
Identify the first signs your body signals to inform you your mood is titrating down or feeling the onset of depression
Identify and implement movement or breathing activities that allow your nervous system the opportunity to reset, relax, and re-energize
Create a new sense of connection and awareness to yourself that promotes an increase in safety and confidence
Strengthening Relationships and Support Systems
Explore the role your negative thought patterns or emotions have in harming your ability to communicate and show up for relationships in your life that you care about
Acknowledge the isolation and withdrawal in your life and identify interventions that reduce the overwhelm or avoidance around going out and engaging with others
Identify and implement boundaries and other strategies to intervene on relationships or relational patterns that may be contributing to depressive symptoms
Learn self-advocacy and explore the benefits of this quality to improving mood and confidence
What to Expect in Therapy
First session:
We provide the option of either leaving the time wide open for you to dive in to whatever topic or discussion you think would be most beneficial, or we can offer a more active approach from your therapist through guided and directive questions to assist in the natural flow of conversation
There are no real goals or agenda for this initial appointment other than getting to know you, your needs, and helping you to identify what you’d like to achieve during your time in therapy
Ongoing sessions:
Weekly appointments to assist in establishing progress towards goals and provide a supportive environment while pursuing, at times, difficult change
A collaborative process in which your therapist will help guide the therapeutic process while encouraging and promoting increase in personal insight, confidence, and advocacy.
Identifying and integrating interventions and skills that work well with your personal lifestyle and needs to reduce frequency and intensity of disturbing emotions
Routine Assessments and Feedback Opportunities
Scheduled assessments provided throughout therapy to track symptoms or problem areas and provide a clear picture of progress being made in therapy and areas of continued growth
Random session feedback questionnaires provided online to create an inviting opportunity to offer your therapist information that can be applied in real time to your sessions
Individualized Plans for Ending Services
Our shared goal will always be to get you to the point of no longer needing services. This means when progress in goals has been established and maintained, the conversation for ending therapy will begin
We will work with you to identify the best transition away from therapy which may look like titrating down to bi-weekly and monthly sessions as this allows for a gradual and supportive transition to relying on skills and natural support system outside of the therapeutic relationship
Why Working with a Local Depression Therapist San Diego Matters
Having a San Diego local to work with can be beneficial as your providers are not only familiar with but have likely experienced similar cultural factors such as the dating challenges, pressures to consistently get out and socialize because the weather is always nice, frustrations in waiting out May Gray and June Gloom, and desire to feel comfortable being in a bathing suit year round
Accessibility for both in-person sessions at our centrally located Mission Valley office and online options for when traffic might be overwhelming or flexibility during the workday is desirable
As a San Diego native who has been in the mental health field locally for over 10 years, I have been able to personally and professionally vet local wellness providers which allows our team to have a solid list of reliable local business that promote and support wellness to include dietitians, naturopath doctors, yoga therapists, and body practitioners
You Deserve to Feel Like Yourself Again
There is light at the end of this tunnel, and it might not be as out of reach as it currently feels. Recovery from depression is possible and it certainly is not meant to be done alone. Current circumstances may leave you feeling overwhelmed and hopeless, but with the guidance of a depression therapist, you will be supported in breaking the process down into tangible and achievable steps.
Whether therapy is a new concept for you or you’ve tried and were let down by a therapist in the past, we are here to talk you through any initial concerns or questions. A free phone consultation allows for a commitment free opportunity to connect with us from the comfort of your own home and hear how we can best serve your needs.
Let’s talk about depression therapy in San Diego and what you’re hoping to feel differently about your life
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Author Bio
Diandra Medina, LMFT, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and founder of Diandra Medina MFT & Associates. She is not only a depression therapist San Diego but also a clinical supervisor for associate therapists. She has curated a team of clinicians who are certified in somatic approaches to therapy. These techniques include biofeedback and EMDR. Our team is here to create a safe and comfortable environment for you to do the work you may not want to do but know you need to do. Learn more about the team here.